How Tipping Hurts Women | Times Documentaries

HT
HT

This video makes me want to not tip anyone ever again

2 days ago
Alexandra Smith
Alexandra Smith

Get a new job, solved your problem. Stop whining.

3 days ago
anna • ona
anna • ona

Thank you for this video, it educated me and it made me more aware of the problem.

6 days ago
Mrsonicslash5
Mrsonicslash5

Just put on an act bruh

Month ago
Ed s
Ed s

get a real job whores!

Month ago
DarkNightcore Xd
DarkNightcore Xd

You know,prostitution has 10 times the risk waitresses have and its legal in most countries.Most waitresses i know actually met their significant other by being hit on at work,so "i do not want to get hit on" usually translates to "i don't want to get hit on by ugly dudes."

Month ago
Chris H
Chris H

I support these women and no longer go out to eat!

2 months ago
Thatdude74
Thatdude74

Tipping doesn’t just affect women btw

2 months ago
Z Taco
Z Taco

Social justice warriors

2 months ago
Zenme Yangzi
Zenme Yangzi

Tips are always optional.

2 months ago
Victor Guillen
Victor Guillen

Just tip like Japan.

2 months ago
영서
영서

I wish wages goes up tipping disappear

2 months ago
영서
영서

$3 dollars an hour? That is crazy they are treated like slave

2 months ago
abby
abby

the real problem is the fact that minimum wage doesn't seem to apply to servers, forcing the customers to then essentially pay them what they should already be getting paid.

3 months ago
bla blubb
bla blubb

2 Dollars 13 in an hour???? Here in Germany you have a minimum of almost 13€ in an hour..

3 months ago
L.A. Zen
L.A. Zen

#IamSorry

3 months ago
Tall Thingy
Tall Thingy

WAAAA WAAAAA WAAAAAAAAA

3 months ago
Rick smith
Rick smith

I don't tip tip 2 get a new job

3 months ago
Nihilanth Non Serviam
Nihilanth Non Serviam

Women get tipped the most yet they complain... What do they want free salary no work? STFU

3 months ago
Chubb Lip
Chubb Lip

It's much safer if you stay at home as a girl. More specifically, the kitchen

4 months ago
Hard Rocker
Hard Rocker

Hire illegals they work jobs people don't want .

4 months ago
BL
BL

How about you don't work there

4 months ago
Alexandria Garibay
Alexandria Garibay

how? Jobs are hard to find. You gotta live on away or another

3 months ago
Diego Valadez
Diego Valadez

Friking feminist men get more money for a reason its history were stronger have more stamina get mad at me if you want but its true

4 months ago
Alexandria Garibay
Alexandria Garibay

it's because they choose different careers but if men were treated like women they would be in the same situation

3 months ago
ImaginaryMdA
ImaginaryMdA

Tipping is dreadful. Antiquated and objectifying.

4 months ago
DrCruel
DrCruel

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrwQ9G4epys

4 months ago
sean33840
sean33840

Most men don't like to hear about sexual harassment because they know they wouldn't do it but they think people talking about it will make women trust men less and effect their interactions with them. It's an unjustified view but I think about it even if I don't completely believe it.

4 months ago
Hale Hardy
Hale Hardy

Then I won't leave any more tips

4 months ago
Miki Marble
Miki Marble

#metoo

4 months ago
infallibleghost
infallibleghost

they dont need the whole thing give them just the tip.

4 months ago
Forgotton Prince
Forgotton Prince

Hey sexist Where is all the guy waiters that have a voice in this

4 months ago
Felix Blackwood
Felix Blackwood

I only refuse to tip whiny feminists.

4 months ago
gorfulator
gorfulator

My God where do they work!! Must be an East Coast thing!

4 months ago
Xx xX
Xx xX

I feel as if this is disgusting for a 1st world country, but doesn't it happen to men too?

4 months ago
Joanne Ofeosii
Joanne Ofeosii

1:24 lmao no offense but you how?

4 months ago
Primal Mgtow
Primal Mgtow

There's a lot of people that work two jobs these people are complaining

4 months ago
Ruth Gomes
Ruth Gomes

This is sexual abuse it’s not because os tips it’s because of jerks come on

4 months ago
flydye45
flydye45

I was a BUSBOY in the 80's. I worked one night a week, and was supposed to get 10% of the tips (I believe some waitresses stiffed me, but try to prove it). I made $2 an hour on the clock...and I seldom walked out of there with less than $40 in my pocket for working 6 hours. That is north of $8 an hour...in the 80's...at 10% of what the waitresses did. Never, not once did the NYT reporter, who was trying to get an emotional subjective feel, ask what these ladies brought home on an average night. Hint: It isn't $2.13 an hour. It isn't $10 an hour. It probably isn't $20 an hour. But that doesn't support the narrative. This for a job which has ENORMOUSLY flexible hours, no minimum skills except some basic math, a decent memory and the ability to be personable. Except that for these women, being personable is far too much of a burden. Translation: I want your money without having to pretend to be nice.

4 months ago
flydye45
flydye45

Some women are good at waiting, some are not. This is the later's story.

4 months ago
Tish Smiddy
Tish Smiddy

Maybe this is why Europe add it in ... Tip means ; T - to I- insure P-Proper S - service Thank you !!!

4 months ago
Exposing the Emperor
Exposing the Emperor

So they want to lead men on, but not have men fall for their game and complain. Just be sexless.

4 months ago
Alexandria Garibay
Alexandria Garibay

if it means being able to live then yes

3 months ago
Al Gus
Al Gus

So the problem is with pervy men, not the tips!

4 months ago
Burton L
Burton L

When I went to America to study, I was offended that I had to pay extra on top of my bill. LOL. I'm soooo sorry.

4 months ago
Maddi Morris
Maddi Morris

what about male waiters? not all waiters are women/waitresses

4 months ago
Rom Jon
Rom Jon

If a servers isn’t hot then I’m not tipping

4 months ago
djcfrompt
djcfrompt

Tipping is a terrible idea for a supposedly democratic country. The entire US should enact laws like WA where servers have to be paid minimum wage before tips.

4 months ago
karim attia
karim attia

Your kidding right...

4 months ago
trok jones
trok jones

what men are wanting some of these feminists so badly they, lose all control of themselves.. Ive waited tables amd bartended for years, and was respected.. flirted with, yes but not to any uncomfortable state, like this..

4 months ago
Philo Jones
Philo Jones

These people are paying the price for not having invested in an education for themselves earlier in life. So rather than charting their own course, they are now servants waiting on tables. Not that there’s anything wrong with that—someone’s got to do it.

4 months ago
Mindfulclarity
Mindfulclarity

Tipping makes feminists pretend to not be feminists whilst serving men.

4 months ago
aoxilus
aoxilus

Regarding the money --The issue is the waiters victimizing themselves, you don't get paid enough you should not work on that. If I am a business and I can not afford to have waiters because I expect my clients to pay my waiters then I should not run a business with them. It is true for many that I know that sometimes waiters do not make enough, but certainly many times a year they make more than minimum wage in tips and this compensates for dry times. So no one put you a gun in your head to be a waiter, the tip is not mandatory by law and can range anything between 1% up to whatever the client feels to. You don't like, dont work as a waiter,,,, end this culture.

4 months ago
Mike Loder
Mike Loder

So you flirt for cash like whores but when men respond they are beasts? Got it.

4 months ago
partysean
partysean

she hurts my eyes.

4 months ago
Gusto St. Cool
Gusto St. Cool

Ever see a chick work a jackhammer? Yeah...me neither.

4 months ago
Gusto St. Cool
Gusto St. Cool

LMFAO! They must have me confused with someone who believes a word coming out of their mouths.

4 months ago
Sarah Coates
Sarah Coates

Wow I wonder where those dislikes came from...

4 months ago
Suck Less
Suck Less

Welding, plumbing, carpentry, sanitation work, and even the fast food cooks, all pay much better. Why women keep choosing waitressing when there are many other opinions? I realize that many of those jobs can be physically demanding and downright dangerous, but it would be a great step forward in equality.

4 months ago
Amy Alice
Amy Alice

Waitressing and bartending are so much work and require a lot from a person, emotionally and physically. I did it for 10 years. In fact, none of my jobs were easier as a woman.

4 months ago
Melissa R
Melissa R

I’m a single Mom and this scares Me if I worked in this job. 😥

4 months ago
Campbell Koschei
Campbell Koschei

servers are females in comparative comfort--whining single mother shitheads

4 months ago
Black Venus
Black Venus

Stop supporting restaurants. Do not eat there. Do not work there. Then watch change happen very quickly.

4 months ago
Bobbi Bart
Bobbi Bart

WAIT $2.13!!! AN HOUR!!!! THIS WAS IN THE 80'S RIGHT! please tell me that wage was from the 80's!!!!!

4 months ago
Kenny
Kenny

Why don't you just become lesbians and try to get tips that way. Oh wait you would b**** about that too

4 months ago
Ezo6
Ezo6

Wtf

4 months ago
Danielle 1244
Danielle 1244

Am I the only the only one that doesn’t care if a waiter/waitress is nice if not I give 20% no matter what.

4 months ago
kri sta
kri sta

Glad I work for such good business. 😊

4 months ago
patrick wood
patrick wood

wait but aren't u liberals always screaming about dressing as slutty as possible being a good thing because its "owning ur sexuality"

4 months ago
TheTrashMan
TheTrashMan

Ah yes, so we should eliminate tipping in favor or what? Mandatory 15% gratitude? So now servers can treat you however they want and still get a tip? And on top of that they want to get paid 15$ an hour as minimum wage? Gimme a break...

4 months ago
Delete System 32
Delete System 32

No genius. They're saying get rid of tipping so that servers get paid a reasonable minimum wage and nobody has to worry about tipping anymore, including the customers.

4 months ago
mark batten
mark batten

If I can't afford a tip I don't go out to dinner. I've always known what waitresses bus boys and all their help go through. And I have personally shamed people at dinner with me for not leaving a proper tip. 15% is the bare minimum 25% for your excellent waitresses and waiters.

4 months ago
David Harrison
David Harrison

As a guy who used to laugh at that ''stupid femanazi'' hype, yeah it was all silly and funny, but this is serious. Why are you lot still disliking and dismissing this stuff? Honestly seems robotic now. Think for yourselves and help these women.

4 months ago
im a fucking sandwich as everbody else
im a fucking sandwich as everbody else

#metoo. totally undebateable.

4 months ago
matt69savage
matt69savage

Brits, in general don't tip because we know its a power thing and allows employers rip off workers.

4 months ago
Aaron Acevedo
Aaron Acevedo

I feel for you ladies. But my concern is how desperate these men are...yuck. yeah I hear y'all! Though

5 months ago
Cat
Cat

Tips are a scam.

5 months ago
AquaLajo
AquaLajo

I've been a waitress for half my life - working for tips is SO MUCH BETTER than working for minimum wage........come on. This video hurts women. This video is INCREDIBLY SEXIST in and of itself!!! Wow....NYT, self examination problem much?

5 months ago
DayOld Donuts
DayOld Donuts

Ok ill stop tipping then

5 months ago
Nurul Aeni
Nurul Aeni

I don't quite understand why this system exists. In my country there's no tipping and every kind of job provide minimum wage + healthcare benefits, otherwise the business owner would be sued or banned from operation.

5 months ago
Ledder Havit
Ledder Havit

Wow what a sexist video,, men serve too.

5 months ago
Callie S
Callie S

The video isn't sexist, it's specifically about the ways in which tipping makes women vulnerable to sexual harassment.

4 months ago
Carrie Kira
Carrie Kira

Get another job then lol

5 months ago
Sam Taylor
Sam Taylor

Pretty sure tipping isn't the problem. The problem is that the waitresses aren't paid enough lmfao. If they made minimum wage AT LEAST, then there would be no reliance on tips and people (not just men) could use tips as leverage or threats or blackmail. Raise the pay and keep tips, tips show appreciation for the servers

5 months ago
trigger Happy
trigger Happy

lias lias lias

5 months ago
Bree Olson
Bree Olson

The 2.4k that thumbs downed this are all the men that watched this. Smdh

5 months ago
Louie Sutherland
Louie Sutherland

This video does not paint a picture of the act of tipping being the culprit but how it can be used as a leverage for somebody, most likely a man, to get what he wants. It is outdated, raise the minimum and make it redundant.

5 months ago
Aalok Joshi
Aalok Joshi

If anything tips hurt men because they are generally seen as less attractive and jovial in the service world. Stop tipping if you care about equality

5 months ago
berliner
berliner

Just forbid tips and pay decent. It's black money anyway.

5 months ago
Springstin
Springstin

At Brusters ice cream we start put with 5.25 and live off tips (which is pretty normal if you're a waitress.. We arent.) we're lucky if we get 1 dollor per customer. ive been promoted twice and am just now making minumum wage.

5 months ago
sean33840
sean33840

Springstin you do realize you can't make less than minimum wage....

4 months ago
ray bon
ray bon

When it comes to compensation this generation Coming not us cause in my view we did a horrible job. But this generation just behind me, born after 80. Has to rejuvenate the concept of what's called fair use. Fair use means. The more tasks you ask as an employer the more you got to pay. So we should be paid by the task. A waitress has to 7 or 9 principal tasks. That should be compensated fairly. Sometimes you will see adds for office administration something which has end less tasks plus software. And most of the time we will see 13 to 16 an hour. So these are the things that need change as a person beginning my exit run from the work force. Cause 47. I will say one if the things that would if made a massive difference in my working life. Was just that mandatory pay scales, fair use, and equal work for equal pay. And just frankly raises. And also weekly progress reports. So as to strengthen the case for just that homeboy a raise. But as it stands salaries are too low.

5 months ago
ChrisRyot
ChrisRyot

so this is obviously not about tipping. However, instead of blaming men (again), how about raging about the unfair salary situation. I mean 2.13/h? You could pick bananas for twice the money. I must admit I'm not familiar with the US American attitude towards a minimum wage, perhaps that also limits a particular aspect of their freedom and whatever else, but it sure does work in other countries. we do have a minimum wage here so waiters and waitresses don't have to rely on their pretty faces, which is indeed a messed up concept. Anyway, I actually don't agree on the concept of individual tipping and more of a collective tip splitting. It's achieved by all people involved and thus everyone should get a piece of the cake. Perhaps your cooks are paid better, but with a 2.13 salary I doubt it'll be that much more.

5 months ago
Sandra Minton
Sandra Minton

2.13 hr. WTF. Restaurants should at least pay minimum wage. The good service tip is for employee. Employees would be happy. Employer should be happy that they like his employees, as that is a returning customer.

5 months ago
Sandra Minton
Sandra Minton

Oh, by the way. Share your tips with the cook. Then the cook is happy. Better work environment for the whole place. Pay those servers a decent wage. $2.13 hr. You should be ashamed.

5 months ago
Dr. Riq
Dr. Riq

why the dislikes???!!!???

5 months ago
The Order of Chaos
The Order of Chaos

Tipping hurts cows. I imagine it would also hurt people.

5 months ago
Gold
Gold

I want to feel some type of way but i dont ... Lets talk about how servers dont have any sort of union or groups ? Very same workers who get tips split it between busboy and kitchen staff but the owners keeps all the earnings ? Umm. Something aint right at all!

5 months ago
Clarence P
Clarence P

Blame the government

5 months ago
Johnathan Andheather
Johnathan Andheather

restaraunts promote low key prostitution by not paying proper. Why is this still legal to be lower than min wage?

5 months ago
LostLocal7
LostLocal7

I have a real hard time believing these are the girls getting the harassment. This B-squad? Blonde hair and bug eyes? Squinty curls? Kabuki blue hair?? Pardon my planet-sized doubt.

5 months ago
Will Sierra
Will  Sierra

Get a better job then if you feel like that in your job you should leave it

6 months ago
dick long
dick long

Here's a good idea...find another job.

6 months ago
holly downs
holly downs

We need our tips and guys wait on tables too !

6 months ago
DentoN
DentoN

those ugly women get sexually harassed?! by whom?! blind guys?! I wouldn't tip a single dollar to one of those ugly creatures neither would I try to touch them.. ugh!

6 months ago
itsnotthesamething
itsnotthesamething

I loved being a server, when I was a younger woman. I never minded the $2.13 min wage, because my tips more than made up for it. On occasion, I did have to contend with rude customers. I don't know of a server who hasn't. And I dealt with unruly men by ignoring them. I'd earn my money off good customers, so if I ticked a man off, and he didn't tip me, oh well. Maybe the poor service would cause him not to come back, and mistreat other waitresses. I discussed how to handle rude people with the owner of the restaurant, and he backed me up. Great man! I had a regular customer base who I formed a great relationship with. When I decided to leave the restaurant industry, and start my own cleaning business, several of my old customers hired me to clean their homes. I realize things are different now. People behave much worse than they did back in my day. But if bosses would be like my old boss, and stand behind their servers, when someone gets out of hand, waiting tables for tips would be a much more enjoyable occupation.

6 months ago
disgustika
disgustika

This is a compilation of thre grossest women claiming to be harassed

6 months ago

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